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Trev-MUNils_trevmun wrote
on February 19th, 2013 at 10:45 am
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You never see it coming.

Hey guys.

I apologize for the lack of activity on Ragnarok Wisdom or updates on my status. I won't get into what was going on for the past few months, but I wanted to let anyone who's still keeping tabs on me to know about this.

My mother died earlier this morning.

I don't really know at the moment what else to say except that things are going to be really hard on me now. My life has been turned upside down by this, and I'm not sure how things will shake out in the forseeable future.

See you guys later.

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[User Picture]From: veldurn
2013-02-22 11:47 pm (UTC)

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It just kills me whenever I hear something like this. I can't even begin to fathom what you're going through (and don't want to, as inevitable as it ultimately will be) and never know the right thing to say.

BUT, if you want someone who's really good at listening, I'm here for ya, pal. We all are, those of us who still read these sites.
[User Picture]From: ils_trevmun
2013-02-23 06:04 am (UTC)

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Thanks, man ... I really do appreciate it. I was honestly not even sure if anyone was still using LJ at this point, especially after all the forced changes SUP's been making causing people to pack up and go elsewhere.

It's ... What's happened isn't how I expected her life to end. She didn't die of old age, or of a terminal illness ... it just happened suddenly, no warning, no alarming change in behavior or distressing new symptom giving her trouble.

She survived cancer before I was born. My great grandma died after living almost a century, and my grandparents are both still alive right now ... and my mom was only 52 years old. We don't have the autopsy report back yet, and we won't for 10 more days, so ... Above it all I just don't understand what took her life.

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